Bringing inspiration and hope from my own journey is a huge privilege because I have personally healed from addiction, intimate partner abuse, incest, sexual assault and more #MeToo moments than I can count.
And I didn't just survive - I am thriving!
That said, healing IS hard work. After many years of struggle, I unlocked the secrets to my spiritual and sexual sovereignty and today I enjoy an amazing, elevating, exciting and magical reality that far surpasses what I ever imagined possible!
As an Internal Family Systems Trained (IFS) Relationship Coach, Certified Sexologist, Anger Specialist and Trained Rape and Domestic Violence Counselor I bring a rich array of expertise to my coaching practice.
And as a sex positive activist I have been featured on a variety of platforms including CNN, FOX, Bill Maher’s Politically Incorrect, Yale, Stanford and the New York Times. My first book, Sex Secrets of Escorts (Penguin 2005) has been translated into four languages and you can find my articles on many online platforms including Medium.
As a budding filmmaker, I am credited as the Creative Consultant for an award winning documentary, Love Over Money, (executive producer Joaquin Phoenix, and winner of the Los Angeles Documentary Film Festival) which was released the summer of 2024.
My forthcoming prescriptive memoir, The Pedophile Who Loved Me: My Treacherous Path to True Forgiveness, recounts my healing journey as an incest survivor born into a religious cult. Although my story is uniquely disturbing, I share solid concepts for healing generational trauma with accountability, healthy boundaries, and parts work that applies to many dysfunctional family dynamics.
You can learn more about me, including my 20 years as a controversial public spokesperson when you visit my website. While you are there, you can also to learn more about my Exquisite Partnership Formula™, and check out my YouTube channel.
