That sunny mountain afternoon As you sped toward me, one ear up The other hanging down Tongue dragging the ground Insinuating yourself into my lap Your eyes searched deep into mine You were the only one to see my truth So completely, that of course I fell in love It…

He accused her of maliciously severing his finger and spitefully pooping in their bed. She said he beat her up before he sodomized her with a bottle. There was more of course. And every gory detail was steeped in bitterness and hurt. As Johnny Depp and Amber Heard shared the…

Trigger Warning: This article includes my personal story of surviving sexual assault and reclaiming my sexual empowerment. I also share crucial and cutting edge information about consent for ALL genders that EVERYONE of us needs to know. …

Most couples argue from time to time. But did you know that depending upon the form your arguments take, they can also take a toll on your psychological and emotional health? It’s true. And to help illustrate how that works, let’s look at some ways that couples deal with their…

One of my closest friends shared this podcast about a sex cult called OneTaste. She knew that I’d be interested, not only because she used to live and work there, but also because I used to teach workshops there. In the years since I taught at the San Francisco chapter…

I think you are missing the most salient point of the SPE. While Zimbardo may not have taken into account experimenter bias and the lack of random sampling, it is nevertheless true that by replicating prison conditions (not being able to leave and encouraging sadistic behavior from the guards) the…

After a year of Netflix and Zoom, many of us are tired of staying home and we’re ready to bust loose. Whether you live in an area that has reopened completely or in part, restrictions are beginning to relax and you are probably getting out of the house more than…

In the wake of another mass murder that has shocked and rocked our nation, we find ourselves once again engaged in a debate we never should have to have: Was the killing of 8 people at three different massage parlors in the Atlanta area a hate crime? We’ve learned that…

She was a virgin. So was he. Spring had sent daffodils and crocuses bursting skyward with their brilliant colors celebrating yet another season of sensual delights. Amidst the buzz and beauty of the season, what was once a very loyal friendship, seemed to be veering into the as yet uncharted…